Avoid common adoption regrets with these 5 smart tips. From choosing the right cat to preparing your home, we break down what new cat parents often get wrong and how to do it right.
Bringing home a new cat should feel magical, not stressful. But for many first-time adopters, excitement can quickly turn into frustration if they’re not fully prepared. At Moricat, we want your adoption story to be one of joy, not regret.
That’s why we’ve pulled together this list of 5 common mistakes new cat parents make, and how you can avoid every single one.
1. Overlooking Adult Cats in Favor of Kittens
We get it, kittens are cute, tiny, and impossible to resist. But adult cats? They’re often calmer, already litter-trained, and just as loving (sometimes more!).
According to a study that surveyed 382 adopters, adult cats are far less likely to be adopted than kittens, and as a result, more are euthanized in shelters. The good news? Adopting an adult cat, even at a discounted price, leads to just as positive outcomes as adopting a kitten. Adopters of adult cats were just as satisfied 6–12 months later.
What to do instead:
Take time to meet cats of different ages and personalities. If you’re looking for a chill, cuddly companion, an adult cat might be your perfect match.
2. Choosing a Cat Based on Looks Alone
It’s tempting to pick the cutest cat in the room (we’ve all been there). But choosing based on appearance, like coat color, can backfire. Studies have shown that adopters are heavily influenced by a cat’s color and physical features, which may not reflect their personality.
Worse, black cats still face stigma. One shelter study found that black cats had the highest euthanasia rates and lowest adoption rates, even though they’re just as sweet and adoptable as any other color.
What to do instead:
Focus on personality and energy level. Let shelter staff introduce you to cats that suit your lifestyle, even if they don’t match your Instagram feed.
3. Underestimating the Adjustment Period
Many new adopters expect instant cuddles and playtime. In reality, your cat may hide, hiss, or avoid you for days, especially if they’re undersocialized or have a history of trauma. One study found that undersocialized cats often struggle to adjust in typical home settings and may show fearful behavior or avoid contact.
What to do instead:
Give your cat a safe space, move slowly, and let them come to you. Use food, toys, and calm presence to build trust. The best relationships are built over time.
4. Not Preparing Your Home First
You wouldn’t bring home a baby without baby-proofing your home, right? The same logic applies to cats.
What first-timers forget:
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Hiding cords, wires, and fragile décor
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Setting up litter boxes in quiet, accessible locations
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Providing scratching posts and hiding spots
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Removing toxic plants (like lilies and pothos)
What to do instead:
Set up your cat’s space before they arrive. You want them to explore, not panic. A calm, secure environment leads to faster bonding.
5. Ignoring the Importance of a Vet Visit
Some adopters wait until “something’s wrong” before going to the vet. But skipping or delaying a wellness check is a huge risk.
Behavioral issues are one of the top reasons cats get returned. Yet many are linked to treatable medical problems like dental pain, parasites, or UTIs. Other studies have shown that fostered cats have lower return rates, often because they’ve already had a vet visit and behavioral support.
What to do instead:
Schedule a vet visit within the first week. Get vaccinations, microchipping, flea/tick prevention, and diet advice sorted early.
Final Thoughts
First-time cat adoption doesn’t have to be a guessing game. With a bit of preparation, realistic expectations, and heart, you can avoid the most common mistakes and give your new cat the forever home they deserve.
And remember: Moricat’s line of collars, toys, and accessories is made to support your journey, every purr of the way.
